FAQs
Can I book a session if I’m new to BDSM?
Yes, provided that you understand that curiosity alone is not submission. You don’t need experience, but you do need sincerity. If you’re new, come willing to listen, learn, and surrender control. I don’t perform; I conduct. If you can accept that, you’ll do fine.
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Do you engage in long-term dynamics?
Yes, and this is my speciality. I take great satisfaction in long-term power exchange: in moulding someone over time, attuning their mind and body, and leading them deeper into themselves. Each layer of surrender reveals something new.
Do you offer sexual services?
No. If you’re looking for release, you misunderstand the premise entirely. What you experience in my presence is psychological stimulation, and while this may feel very erotic to some, it is not a physical transaction. If you can accept that, you’ll do fine.
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Why do you require a tribute before booking?
I receive far more inquiries than I could ever answer. Tribute is how you distinguish yourself from the crowd, as it shows me that you are serious. By sending me a gift accompanied by your name and a short note stating that you have submitted your application, you will do just that: distinguish yourself. I will see it, and I will look for you.
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What’s your screening process?
Every submissive must complete an application. I review your words, energy, and attention to detail. If your message feels lazy, impulsive, or disrespectful, I won’t answer it. Screening is not just for my safety, it’s part of the ritual. How you approach reveals who you are. If I approve of your application, we will continue the screening process.
Would you sign an NDA?
Yes, I am happy to, though it’s rarely necessary. What happens between us remains between us.
What’s your stance on privacy, verification, and deposits?
Security and discretion are of the utmost importance to me, which is why I implement a screening process for both your safety and my own. I require verification (photo ID, LinkedIn or social media profile, work email, or a reference from another provider) and a deposit to secure any engagement. Before meeting in person, a brief video call is required, and not for play, but to simply say hello and ensure mutual comfort.
Do you offer virtual session?
Yes. Virtual sessions are an excellent introduction if you’re nervous or uncertain about meeting in person, or if there is a distance between us. They allow us to build rapport, establish trust, and explore psychological control in a contained, comfortable way. Many of my in-person submissives began virtually; it’s a natural and meaningful way to begin your training.
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Where do you session?
I am based in Berlin, where most of my sessions take place. I also travel regularly to London, Paris, and Copenhagen.
I do consider Fly Me To You (FMTY) engagements. In such cases, I expect my flights, hotels for the full duration of my stay, and all session fees to be covered. FMTY arrangements are reserved for those who already have a proven connection with me or who demonstrate exceptional seriousness from the outset. However, I much prefer it when you fly to me.
What kind of pain do you enjoy giving?
Pain is a language. I speak it fluently but selectively. My interest lies in the psychological resonance, how it reorganises your thoughts, how it humbles you, how it reveals you. The method depends on who you are, not what you think you want.
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Do you see people under 25?
Rarely. I prefer to see those who have lived enough to know what they want, not those still experimenting. Maturity has nothing to do with age, but youth and entitlement often travel together. If you wish to be taken seriously, behave as if you already know how to be.
Do you play with others?
Yes. I have many friends and often collaborate with other Dominatrices or invite my own submissives and “pets” to participate in scenes. I enjoy power hierarchies, double-Domme dynamics, and orchestrating sessions that involve multiple submissives simultaneously. These configurations allow me to expand the psychological theatre of power exchange, an art in itself.
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